maybe, but what you don't like is her ways of doing it, I mean her clothes aren't even legit in any way, she has no other reason to wear them than to show more power than what her behavior already does, okay maybe she just finds them cool, and maybe she never asked spiky to respond to her order that way, and he just does that because he finds it funny, you really have no idea but it's not like you're gonna ask
also what's the deal with her getting so close to you? you have read somewhere that her species don't feel uncomfortable when certain people get too close to them, but it's not the case for yours, don't she know about those things?